If you spent Chuseok in Korea this year, you probably ate more than you meant to. If you were somewhere far away, hopefully you still managed to eat some good food and get a little bit of that holiday feeling. Either way, μΆμ is one of those words that comes up constantly this time of year, along with a handful of others that don't translate cleanly into English. So today, let's go through the Korean words you'll hear during Chuseok season, and what's really behind them.
μΆμ β more than just "Korean Thanksgiving"
The easiest way to explain μΆμ to someone unfamiliar with it is "Korean Thanksgiving" or "the Korean harvest festival." Both get the basic idea across: itβs a holiday centered on gratitude for the harvest and family gathering. But μΆμ runs on the lunar calendar, so the date shifts every year on the solar calendar, unlike the fixed date of Thanksgiving in the US.
"μΆμμ μλ ₯ 8μ 15μΌμ΄μμ." β μΆμ falls on the 15th day of the 8th lunar month.
"κ·Έλμ λ§€λ λ μ§κ° λ¬λΌμ Έμ." β That's why the date changes every year.
νκ°μ β the older, more poetic name for μΆμ
νκ°μ and μΆμ refer to the exact same holiday, but νκ°μ is the native Korean name, while μΆμ comes from Chinese characters meaning "autumn evening." νκ°μ breaks down into ν (big, or great) and κ°μ (an old word for the middle of something), so the name itself basically means "the big middle of autumn." You'll hear it most in the phrase νκ°μλ§ κ°μλΌ, a saying wishing that every day could be as abundant as Chuseok.
"νκ°μλ§ κ°μλΌ λΌλ λ§ λ€μ΄λ΄€μ΄μ?" β Have you heard the phrase "may every day be like νκ°μ"?
"κ·Έλ§νΌ νμ±ν λͺ μ μ΄λΌλ λ»μ΄μμ." β It means that's how abundant this holiday is supposed to feel.
μ°¨λ‘ β the morning ritual
μ°¨λ‘, if translated to English, is closest to "ancestral rites" or "a memorial service for one's ancestors." Families gather in the morning, set out food, and perform μ°¨λ‘ to honor the ancestors before the rest of the day's eating and visiting begins. That said, μ°¨λ‘ isn't a given anymore. Plenty of families these days skip it entirely, whether for religious reasons, distance, or just not seeing the point in keeping it up, and instead spend the morning just eating and relaxing together.
"μ°λ¦¬ κ°μ‘±μ μμΉ¨ μΌμ° λͺ¨μ¬μ μ°¨λ‘λ₯Ό μ§λ΄μ." β My family gathers early in the morning to perform μ°¨λ‘.
"ν λ¨Έλκ° λ©°μΉ μ λΆν° μ°¨λ‘ μμμ μ€λΉνμ ¨μ΄μ." β My grandmother had been preparing the food for μ°¨λ‘ for days.

μ±λ¬ β visiting the graves afterward
Once μ°¨λ‘ is done, a lot of families head out for μ±λ¬, visiting and tidying up ancestral graves. It usually involves pulling weeds, laying out a small offering, and giving a quick bow. Some families do a related task called λ²μ΄ β cutting back the overgrown grass around a grave β separately, often a few weeks before Chuseok itself, so the grave looks presentable by the time everyone visits.
"μ΄λ² μ£Όλ§μ μ±λ¬ κ°κΈ°λ‘ νμ΄μ." β We decided to go do μ±λ¬ this weekend.
"μλ²μ§κ° λ²μ΄λ 미리 ν΄λμ ¨μ΄μ." β My dad already did the λ²μ΄ beforehand.

μ‘νΈ β not just "rice cake"
μ‘νΈ is the rice cake made specifically for Chuseok and you won't see it around at other holidays. The shape is a half-moon, folded closed around a filling of sweet sesame seeds, beans, or chestnuts. There's even an old belief that whoever shapes the prettiest μ‘νΈ will meet a good spouse or have a beautiful daughter.
"μ°λ¦¬λ μΆμ μ λ λ€ κ°μ΄ μ‘νΈμ λΉμμ΄μ." β We made μ‘νΈ together as a family the night before μΆμ.
"μμ λκ° λ€μλμ§μ λ°λΌ λ§μ΄ μμ ν λ¬λΌμ Έμ." β The taste changes completely depending on what's inside.
κ·μ±κΈΈ β the yearly traffic everyone complains about
No Chuseok conversation is complete without someone mentioning κ·μ±κΈΈ, the journey back to one's hometown. It's less a single word and more a whole seasonal event where millions of people leave the cities at once, all headed the same direction, all stuck in the same traffic. If everyone lives close to one another, this is a huge relief as the traffic can make commute times more than double!
"κ·μ±κΈΈμ νμλ³΄λ€ λ λ°°λ κ±Έλ Έμ΄μ." β The trip home took twice as long as usual because of κ·μ±κΈΈ.
"κ³ μλλ‘κ° κ½ λ§νμ λ€λ€ κ³ μνλμ." β Everyone had a rough time because the highways were completely jammed.